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README.md

@@ -8,7 +8,16 @@ I am Reaper i have been an administrator for mika, doing all sorts of things for
 i mainly moderated their discord and twitch chat but also did alot of tech support for streams.
 
 # why i left.
-[in short](https://www.youtube.com/live/hN5e4jyyOTA?si=lojBaHCAZxjlc9PW&t=8420) this is a timestamped video that shows the moment i decided to leave because of the continued attitude i received publicly from them. roughtime stamps are from 2:20:20 to 2:35:00 that was just the last last straw that broke the camel's back for me personally.
+<video controls src="Timeline 2.mov" title="Title"></video>
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+Quality leaves something to be desired, sorry.
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+This is a clip from the stream i decided to leave. TLDR:
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+Someone asked Mika if they wanted to try out borderlands 4.
+I explained to them the technical reason Mika wont and she gave me Attitude for that for just explaining something.
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+that was the straw that broke the camels back for me wich made me decide to drop my interactions with them.
 
 # Patterns of behavior.
 Pattern of Behavior
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 - Shifting blame onto others when conflicts arose
 - Attempts to control narratives within the community
 - Retaliatory actions toward those who questioned or disagreed
+- Manipulative tactics, both emotional and simply through lies
 
 These were not isolated incidents. They occurred repeatedly over a sustained period.
 
@@ -61,6 +71,24 @@ keep in mind its not that mika said one thing wrong but as i explained in my rea
 
 ![alt text](image-5.png)
 
+Before i end my statements here.
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+![alt text](Narcissism-1.png)
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+Hyperbolic guilt-ridden statements to emotionally manipulate:
+- "I'm suddenly..."
+- "It's the end of the..."
+- "I can't say one thing wrong"
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+Emotional manipulation:
+- "I support you where you are having problems and try to make you happy"
+- "just to make you happy"
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+Unwillingness to admit fault:
+- "i apologize to you for a few things that, honestly, i didn't do anything wrong."
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+these are textbook examples at this point.
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 And i have more, but because of privacy of parties involved i decided not to share that at this point. i dont want to see people hurt or be put in situations that are unsafe for any reason the internet is wild sometimes.
 
 while alot of these are not TO ME or WITH ME they hurt people close to me. \